A night to remember

A Night to Remember

“A Prayer for the Whole Human Family.
O God, you made us in your own image and redeemed us through Jesus your Son: Look with compassion on the whole human family; take away the arrogance and hatred which infect our hearts; break down the walls that separate us; unite us in bonds of love; and work through our struggle and confusion to accomplish your purposes on earth; that, in your good time, all nations and races may serve you in harmony around your heavenly throne; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. Book of Common Prayer, p. 815.

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Last night we attended the packed service at Temple B’nai Israel led by Rabbi Barry Block for the eleven people who died at Tree of Life Congregation in the Squirrel Hill neighborhood of Pittsburg during Jewish religious services on Saturday. As I looked out to the woods beyond their wall to wall glass windows at the front of Temple B’nai Israel sanctuary, I remember so many Christmas Eve services we participated in at the Temple when we were at St. Margaret’s Episcopal Church before St. Margaret’s had a church building, and this congregation offered their space for us to worship.

One of the speakers last night mentioned that the part of the building we were in and also where the eleven worshippers were murdered is called a sanctuary, a safe place. This is what we all consider our places of worship to be, a safe place. Supposedly, that is why Episcopal Churches have red doors, a sign of a sanctuary, a safe place.

During most of the service, members of the congregation were adding more chairs as people continued to pour in. As you can see from our picture, we were at the far back but had seats thanks to Mary Manning from St. Mark’s who saved us our two seats. Eventually there was standing room only with faith leaders and politicians and friends I knew who were members of the congregation and many I knew I had seen before but could not recall their names. One of the physicians, Jim Aronson, whom we worked with at Children’s Hospital who grew up in Squirrel Hill and knew so many of those who died, spoke. Jim shared stories of Squirrel Hill and the Tree of Life Congregation as we began to become connected to that congregation as we were to the Jewish community here present in Little Rock.

Love, community, peace, compassion, empathy, friendship, common ground, togetherness, oneness dwelt in this sanctuary last night.

Perhaps two events that occurred as we were leaving may best describe what was happening. Two of the opposing candidates for mayor left with their arms embracing each other’s necks, one African American, one white. After the service, a social worker, Debby Brady, we knew from Children’s Hospital, a member of the congregation whom we had not seen in probably twenty years, insisted on driving us to our car several blocks away as she thanked us for being there.

We can still barely talk about it.

Joanna. Joannseibert.com

Love

Love

I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.” Martin Luther King, Jr.

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When southern women saw a statement we wanted to remember, we would say, “ we must embroider this on a pillow.” Now as our country is so divided, I want to tattoo this on my forehead or stitch it on my lips. These are silly things to say but they may express the great difficulty it is to love others who seem to be so destructive to what we consider the way of life and the values we have been taught and we hope to represent.

I know what hate is like. It is a poison that destroys sometimes quickly and sometimes one brain cell at a time. When hate enters my body and spirit, I am tense. I am irritated by the least difficulty. My arteries are constricted. I become a victim. I live a zero-sum life. I must hold on tight to what I have because otherwise, I will soon lose it. Hate not only directs itself to others but is self-destructive. Hate destroys our bodies and everyone and everything we come in contact with.

I know what love feels like. It is peace, joy, caring for others, kindness, patience, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control, caring for myself, all the fruit of the spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). My body is calm. My arteries are dilated. I am able to handle situations that once baffled me. I never see myself as a victim. I live a life of gratitude and forgiveness.

As we think about it, why would anyone not choose love? Perhaps because they do not know what love is like. They have not experienced love.

Again, this is our constant task, to stay surrounded with people and a community who know love, learn from them, share what they have taught us and try to give love away to as many as possible, whomever crosses our path today. I am counting on love.

Love is an infinity sum. The more we give, the more we receive. It is an inexhaustible source of energy. Hate, on the other hand, destroys everything around it including the body it inhabits.

Our bodies, our minds, our Spirit tells us to choose love. So does Rob Bell in his book, Love Wins.

Joanna joannaeibert.com

Owensby: Violence

Owensby: Violence

“The sorrow and horror I feel at yesterday’s murders at the Living Tree Synagogue in Pittsburgh have left me disoriented and inarticulate. But those events have also strengthened my resolve to act for justice and peace in our land and beyond.

I urge you to join me in resisting hate, prejudice, injustice, and violence in the voting booth, on social media and in our ordinary speech. Speak love. Join the struggle for equality, respect, and freedom for all. Strive for peace and insist on respect for the dignity of every human being.” Jake Owensby, Bishop of Western Louisiana, “ Prayers for a Start, “ Looking for God in Messy Places, jakeowensby.com, October 28, 2018.

Plachte-Zuieback Art Glass. Jewish Tree of Life

Plachte-Zuieback Art Glass. Jewish Tree of Life

Like so many of you, I am grieving for the congregation of the Living Tree Synagogue in Pittsburg after the mass murder during their Saturday services. Jake Owensby seemed to say what I want to express. There are not words, but we are called to certain actions.

Our Interfaith groups in Little Rock have been invited to a prayer service Monday at the Temple B’nai Israel at 6 pm. The is where my heart leads me. I remember after the shooting at Bethel AME church in Charleston in January, 2017, we went to services to sit with our friends at Bethel AME in Little Rock.

We say prayers, but we also want to say prayers with our feet. Jake Owensby is also reminding us to say prayers in the voting booth, on social media, and how we speak to each other.

Each of us has inherited prejudice of some form, some very subtle. As the song in South Pacific goes, “we have been carefully taught.” Our friends, our community also shape our prejudices. Our social economic situation shapes our prejudices.

Family systems studies tell us that part of our job is to stop the prejudices that have come down through our generations. We owe this to our children and grandchildren. I know we can do this by being with communities of diversity, listening to the stories of others so different from us, appreciating what we learn from other cultures.

Treating and loving our neighbor as we would want to be treated and loved is a start.

Praying for the members of the Tree of Life Synagogue, those who have died and their families in a start. Those who have died are

Daniel Stein

Joyce Feinberg

Richard Gottfried

Rose Mallinger

Jerry Rabinowitz

Cecil Rosenthal

David Rosenthal

Bernice Simon

Sylvan Simon

Melvin Wax

Irving Younger

Joanna joannaseibert.com