Guenther: At. Home in the World

Guenther: At Home in the World

“Inevitably, even if we are persistent and faithful, there will come a time when God seems not to be listening or speaking to us. We have entered a desert time. Maybe our icons-our windows to God- have turned into idols. That is, the form of our prayer has become more important than the prayer itself. We can find ourselves attributing almost magical power to our methods of centering prayer, Ignatian meditation, or reading the daily offices of Morning and Evening Prayer. We can become so preoccupied with following our rule of life that we can forget where we are going.”

Margaret Guenther, At Home in the World, A Rule of Life for the Rest of Us. Seabury Books 2006.

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Will-known author and Episcopal priest Margaret Guenther reminds us that we do not come into the world equipped with a spiritual road map or owner’s manual, so we need to write our own. We cannot download from some celestial source a spiritual MapQuest with precise directions for turning each corner.

Guenther gives us an easily readable book about how to follow a rule of life and still live in the world. Our rule will be different at varying stages of our lives. She offers ways to live in the awareness of the preciousness of each day, living every day as if it were our last, constantly reminding ourselves that time is a gift from God. Each chapter discusses a distinctive aspect of our lives, our families, our solitude, or creativity, our money, our fear of abundance, our friends and enemies, our prayer, and our use of power.

The chapters are followed by questions for reflection, making the book an excellent choice for a small group study.

I keep reading At Home and still learn something new or a new practice whenever I pick up the book.. Guenther suggest that whenever a person comes to mind, we should call, visit, send a text, or prayer. I also learned this from my spiritual director in deacon training, Dan McKee.

Guenther discusses how Sabbath is not merely ceasing to work but to be celebrating something that makes us new, something that re-creates ourselves. She reminds us that an ongoing association with children, “who live closer to the ground” than we do can be a powerful source for re-creation, a new creation.

Guenther consoles me when forgiveness comes too slowly. She describes forgiveness as a great block of ice which melts slowly and cannot be hurried. “There is no spiritual equivalent of a microwave.”

Today she reminds us what may be going on when we feel spiritually dry.

Joanna joannaseibert.com

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3 Opportunities in next 2 weeks to purchase a signed copy of A Daily Spiritual Rx for Lent and Easter
Wordsworth Books, Little Rock, Saturday March 2, 1-3 pm

St. Mark's Episcopal Church, Little Rock, Narthex after 8 and 10:30 services on March 3 and March 10

Proceeds from this book go for Hurricane Relief in the Diocese of the Central Gulf Coast

Palmer: Acquired Taste

Palmer: Acquired Taste

“I believe that Christian Formation, the main task of the church, is the way God teaches our hearts to long for and love things, people, and God in the right way. It is through attending to my Rule of Life - the holy habits of weekly Eucharist, daily prayer, regular acts of service, and study, and reflection, that God teaches me to love in the right way. It is kind of like God's way of instilling in us a taste for the Kingdom of God, because the Kingdom of God...is an acquired taste.”

Trent Palmer, a member of St. Paul's Episcopal Church, Fayetteville, Arkansas, on St. Paul’s Morning Reflection,

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Friend and former Methodist minister, Trent Palmer, makes us look up and take notice when he says, the Kingdom of God is an acquired taste. Those who are connected to some form of a sacramental church where the Eucharist or communion is central to worship may especially relate to the image of using our sense of taste to know God.

I think of the many opportunities to taste the Kingdom on the smorgasbord that God provides. Some take a few bits of the Kingdom and decide for many reasons it is not their cup of tea. There are others that have only a little taste of the Kingdom of God and what that peace is like and crave more. Sometimes that craving lasts for a lifetime. Sometimes the busyness of the world deadens that taste or keeps us from the table. Tasting the kingdom is so much like the parable of the seeds that fall on the path, in the thorns, on rocky ground, and in good soil.

Tasting the Kingdom is like what a new person to recovery is told. You don’t just go to one meeting or meet once with a sponsor and then you are in recovery. You start off going to 90 meetings in 90 days and you met regularly with a sponsor and you connect to the program for the rest of your life, hoping to stay in recovery.

My daughter and I wrote a book, Taste and See: Experiences of God’s Goodness Through Stories, Poems, and Food, As Seen by a Mother and Daughter. We wrote about our experience seeing God’s presence in difficult times, and food was always present. God uses all of our senses and more to keep us connected.

I remember the menu plan that God provides. When we taste the fruit of the Spirit, peace, joy, love, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23), we know we are living in the Kingdom.

Joanna joannaseibert.com

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4 Opportunities in next 2 weeks to purchase a signed copy of A Daily Spiritual Rx for Lent and Easter

Holy Spirit Episcopal Church, Gulf Shores Alabama, Saturday February 23, 10-2 and Sunday February 24
Wordsworth Books, Little Rock, Saturday March 2, 1-3 pm

St. Mark's Episcopal Church, Little Rock, Narthex after 8 and 10:30 services on March 3 and March 10

Proceeds from this book go for Hurricane Relief in the Diocese of the Central Gulf Coast

Addiction and Spiritual Direction

Addiction and Spiritual Direction
“We have entered into the world of the Spirit. Our next function is to grow in understanding and effectiveness. This is not an overnight matter. It should continue for our lifetime.”

p. 84, Big Book of ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, 4th edition, Alcoholic Anonymous World Services, 2001.

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Sometimes those coming for spiritual direction are blocked because of addiction. They have filled their “God hole” with another form of the spirit, alcohol of drugs, and it is no longer working. How do we help spiritual friends who need recovery? First of all, as you know, this is a disease, not a moral failing. Denial is a HUGE part of the disease. It is the only disease that tells you that we do not have the disease, so look for subtle hints. This could be a time to suggest the name of a therapist who specializes in addiction or a good friend of theirs who is in a recovery program.

A person in recovery will simply tell them his or her story, what it was like when they were drinking and now what their life is like in a recovery or 12-step program. This is a two-way street. Telling their story keeps them sober as well as possibly helping another. I know of no more powerful act of love than being vulnerable enough to tell someone else your story about how another, a new Spirit has entered your life and made all the different.

Most people have no idea how spiritual 12-step programs are. They are a new way of life, a road less traveled. Statistics say that only about 10% of those in alcohol addiction make it to recovery. Recovery is not just about not drinking but a new way of life, looking and relating to the world with a new pair of glasses. Alcohol was a way to cope with living life on life’s terms. After we stop drinking we will need a new coping method, which is a relationship with a higher power that mot call God.

I remember when I first started going to a 12-step program that I soon believed it would hopeless for me to recover when I was told that the heart of this program was spiritual. I already was a very spiritual person, leading groups, writing articles about faith! However, I soon realized that God was a part of my life, but I was in charge, the pilot, and I gave God the position of co-pilot, being there to help me with my plans. I had been told this in church, of course, since an early age to have God in charge, leading my life, but I had to hear it someplace else to try to change, for you see, I have such good ideas!

Joanna joannaseibert.com

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4 Opportunities to purchase this book for Lent and have it signed.

Holy Spirit Episcopal Church, Gulf Shores Alabama, Saturday February 23, 10-2 and Sunday February 24
Wordsworth Books, Little Rock, Saturday March 2, 1-3 pm

St. Mark's Episcopal Church, Little Rock, Narthex after 8 and 10:30 services on March 3 and March 10

Proceeds from this book go for Hurricane Relief in the Diocese of the Central Gulf Coast