Parker Palmer: Sanctuary and Sacred Spaces

Parker Palmer: Seeking Sanctuary in Our Own Sacred Spaces

“Sanctuary is wherever I find safe space to regain my bearings, reclaim my soul, heal my wounds, and return to the world as a wounded healer. It’s not merely about finding shelter from the storm: it’s about spiritual survival. Today, seeking sanctuary is no more optional for me than church attendance was as a child.” —Parker Palmer, “Seeking Sanctuary in Our Own Sacred Spaces” in “On Being with Krista Tippett” (9/14/2016).

Our news is full of churches, towns, cities who are providing sanctuary to undocumented immigrants facing possible deportation—dreamers, many who have been working and living and raising families in our country for years. They sought a better life for themselves and their families and now fear losing all that is sacred to them.

Many who come to spiritual directors are also seeking a sanctuary for their sacred spaces, a chance to revive a spiritual life that once had been vibrant but now may seem lost. They had decided to live boldly and follow a road less traveled; but they have come to a spiritual fork in the road, or perhaps a dead end. They fear they have lost the spiritual life they once had. They are now on a path that seems uncharted.

Our ministry as spiritual friends is to be a sanctuary for the souls of those who seek our trust and guidance, especially at times when they feel isolated from their God connection. It can be a lonely time. We must treat as sacred this precious part of all people, that presence of God within each of us that is sometimes nearly undetectable. We must never lose sight of the privilege or the awesomeness of being asked to care for the soul of another, especially at a vulnerable time in that person’s life.

This is a holy trust, a rare chance to make a difference—just as our churches in years past were and in years to come will remain places of sanctuary. I am told that the red doors of some of our churches are an ancient sign of sanctuary within. When we meet with a spiritual friend, may we imagine that we are sitting together just within the protection of red doors.

We also are called to relate to other seekers in the world who need a sanctuary at this time of their life—in prayer and in person—remembering that we all are seekers, and we too are on an undocumented, uncharted path. Our hope is that we will have the courage to stand, sit, sleep, work, eat, and pray beside all who need sanctuary within the red doors of our churches, as well as within our minds and hearts.

Joanna joannseibert.com

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Parker Palmer:Trees

Parker Palmer: Trees

“I used to take trees for granted. But these days I know that sitting in their presence for a while will leave me refreshed and renewed. I wonder if trees photosynthesize the soul as well as sunlight? But most of all, I’m drawn to trees because of something W. S. Merwin says in this lovely poem—the way they slowly and quietly cycle through the seasons ‘as though nothing had happened while our individual and collective lives whirl madly around them.’” —Parker Palmer’s response to W. S. Merwin’s poem “Elegy for a Walnut Tree” in his weekly column in “On Being with Krista Tippett” (5/3/2017).

I want to remember what Parker Palmer is telling us about the outdoors, and trees especially. Could “trees photosynthesize the soul”? Being outside with trees does do something to my soul. Photosynthesis “is a process used by plants to convert light energy into chemical energy (sugar from carbon dioxide and water) that later is released to fuel the plants’ activities and releases oxygen as a waste product.” Plants are like transformers, changing one form of energy into another, turning light energy into chemical energy.

Being outside in a forest does transform and quiet my soul. Soon the busyness of my mind, the committee in my head, and my to do list no longer are managing my mind. I am grounded to the earth. I move out of my mind and into my body. I see a world greater than myself, a power at work beyond my limits. As I keep returning to the forest, I observe how the trees do quietly “cycle through the seasons.” The trees are a permanent icon, reminding us that we are to be the “steady bow,” as the parent that Khalil Gibran writes about in The Prophet. We are indeed all parents caring for this earth that in turn also parents us, cares for us.

My father was a forester who for so many Saturdays took people out to plant more trees. Often we would drive by the pine forest to see how they were growing. This produced some synapse change in my cells, so that I always had difficulty seeing a tree cut down. This poem is especially meaningful to me today, since two large trees in my neighbor’s yard just outside my window were uprooted last week. Yesterday men with chain saws took the trees away. I grieve for the trees’ absence. It helps to remember that our son and his wife had to cut down a dying tree that was adjacent to where they are building a house. They honored the tree by using the wood to make a mantel to go over their fireplace.

I look forward to hearing from you about what you have learned from trees and how you honor trees.

Joanna joannseibert.com

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Parker Palmer: Let Your Life Speak

Parker Palmer: Let Your Life Speak

“A leader is someone with the power to project either shadow or light onto some part of the world and onto the lives of the people who dwell there. A leader shapes the ethos in which others must live, an ethos as light-filled as heaven or as shadowy as hell.” —Parker J. Palmer, “Shadows and Spirituality” in Let Your Life Speak: Listening for the Voice of Vocation (Jossey-Bass, 2000).

I learned about Parker Palmer when I attended a College of Preachers conference just for deacons at the National Cathedral led by the Bishop of Maryland, Robert Ihloff. We spent the whole week learning to preach and studying Palmer’s book about vocation. Parker Palmer told us about what causes leaders to fail. We cast shadow rather than light when we fail to go on an inner journey and have insecurity about our identity and worth. Our identity becomes dependent on performing. When we are insecure about our own self-worth we create situations that deprive others of their identity or develop settings in which others are required to meet our needs. We assume titles that place us above others. We call others by their first name, while we must be addressed by our last name or title.

Leaders fail when they see the universe as a hostile battlefield. We see others as either allies or enemies on a playing field where we must be highly competitive or we will lose. Palmer’s third explanation of why leaders fail is “functional atheism,” a term he may have coined. We believe that the ultimate responsibility for everything rests with us. The fourth shadow within a leader that leads to failure is fear, mostly fear of chaos. This fear leads to a rigidity toward rules and procedures. We forget that creativity is born out of chaos. Finally, Parker sees leaders fail when they deny death. They keep resuscitating programs that are no longer alive, putting them on life support.

I can identify with all of these shadows of leadership. Do these shadows speak to you as well?

Joanna joannseibert.com

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