Guest Writer Isabel Anders: Our Novel Life

“It would seem that the universal society is a great novel, of which each of us is at once joint author, and one of the characters, and many of the characters. At every level we make one another what we are, by reciprocal projection and reflection.” —D. E. Harding in The Hierarchy of Heaven and Earth (Faber and Faber, 1952, Introduction by C. S. Lewis).

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I have long felt that our human actions with, and for, and sometimes against each other are of more significance than I was taught to believe. C. S. Lewis certainly affirms that truth when he says in The Weight of Glory (Macmillan, 1949) that “Next to the Blessed Sacrament itself, your neighbor is the holiest object presented to your senses.” He continues: “There are no ordinary people. You have never talked to a mere mortal. Nations, cultures, arts, civilizations—these are mortal, and their life is to ours as the life of a gnat. But it is immortals whom we joke with, work with, marry, snub and exploit—immortal horrors or everlasting splendors.”

If we were able to sustain even a portion of this awareness as we go about daily life, how different our world would be. The unfolding “novel” in which we find ourselves would take on a different tone. We would think (at least) twice about cutting someone off (in mid-sentence, in our highway lane—or in life). We would learn the discipline of tongue and hand and fist that might banish violence from its pages.

Overestimating our own importance, of course, could work against a truly harmonious world—one of genuine courtesy and consideration. Like any truth, awareness of our human significance can be distorted into making us believe we are gaining “points” for goodness—rather than acting freely out of knowledge and love as we were created to do.

Some fiction writers have reported that their novel seemed to “write itself.” That is not a bad model to keep in mind regarding our behavior toward each other as we go about co-writing the novel that is this shared life.

—Isabel Anders.

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50th Anniversary

“Many waters cannot quench love,

neither can floods drown it.” Song of Solomon 8:7

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Today is our 50th wedding anniversary. We are the only ones in our immediate families except for my maternal grandparents to be married this long. Almost every morning we wake up and ask each other if we ever thought we would have lived to be married this long. We talk about the miracle that we found in being with each other. I keep thinking about Ann Lamott’s quote in Help, Thanks, Wow: “the secret of marriage is thinking that you got the better deal.” I know that is true for me as do all who know my husband. He inherited kindness and thoughtfulness from his mother and father who also passed it on to our children. We know living this long with another person is a miracle. We know that this was not something that we have accomplished on our own. We talk about friends and family who helped us, many who have died. We miss being with them. Many died because of life style habits that so easily could have been part of our lives. Mostly each day we are grateful for this miracle of our life together. With every miracle goes a place of darkness. We don’t want to stop being together for a single second and have to experience this life without each other. This is living in fear instead of just enjoying one more day in the company of one you love in this life. A fear-based life is not life but death. This is our gift today to each other and to our children and grandchildren that we have learned in the last 50 years: a life of constant gratitude and trying to live in the present moment is what living is all about.

Joanna. Joannaseibert.com

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Book Signing Wordsworth Books

Saturday, November 2, 2019 1 to 3 pm

Just in time for the holidays

A Spiritual Rx for Advent Christmas, and Epiphany

The Sequel to A Spiritual Rx for Lent and Easter

Both are $18. Money from sale of the books goes to Camp Mitchel Camp and Conference Center in Arkansas or Hurricane Relief in

The Diocese of the Central Gulf Coast


Nouwen: Trees and Needing Praise

“Trees that grow tall have deep roots. Great height without great depth is dangerous. The great leaders of this world—like St. Francis, Gandhi, and Martin Luther King, Jr.—were all people who could live with public notoriety, influence, and power in a humble way because of their deep spiritual rootedness. Those who are deeply rooted in the love of God can enjoy human praise without being attached to it.” —Henri Nouwen in Bread for the Journey (HarperSanFrancisco, 1997).

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Nouwen gives us an amazing sign of when our connection to God is thin. When we are needing the praise and adoration of others, we are not “rooted” in God. Living off of the praise of others is living on the surface. Needing the positive opinion of others is like a “stop sign.”

Stop! We are going in the wrong direction. Turn around. Go and sit or walk outdoors. Recognize that there dwells in nature something greater than ourselves. Remember that a loving God has our welfare so completely in mind that God created all this for us to care for and enjoy.

Talk to a spiritual friend. Do one of the many, many spiritual exercises we most often practice in order to reconnect to God. Reexamine your rule of life.

Reach out in love to someone else, especially someone in need. Make eye contact. Look for the light of Christ in that person. Connect the Christ in us to the Christ in the other person. I think this is one of the ways that our souls need to extend and enlarge in order to nurture deeper roots.

Joanna . joannaseibert.com

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Book Signing Wordsworth Books

Saturday, November 2, 2019 1 to 3 pm

Just in time for the holidays

A Spiritual Rx for Advent Christmas, and Epiphany

The Sequel to A Spiritual Rx for Lent and Easter

Both are $18. Money from sale of the books goes to Camp Mitchel Camp and Conference Center in Arkansas or Hurricane Relief in

The Diocese of the Central Gulf Coast