Storm Warnings

Storm Warnings

“Jesus also said to the crowds, ‘When you see a cloud rising in the west, you immediately say, ‘It is going to rain’; and so it happens.… You know how to interpret the appearance of earth and sky, but why do you not know how to interpret the present time? And why do you not judge for yourselves what is right?’”—Luke 12:54-57.

joanna campbell

I sit and watch a storm come up the beach in the early morning. The sun is out, with blue skies to the east, but the sky is grayer to the west. Clouds move overhead. Sometimes, this dark overhead carpet seems so close that I feel I can almost touch it. Fishing boats return to port to weather the coming storm. Birds take shelter. The great blue heron moves inland. The pelicans are nowhere to be seen. The mighty osprey is the last to give up looking for one more meal before returning to her nest. A violent wind precedes and announces the pivotal event, almost horizontal driving rain.

patti martin

Jesus reminds us that we see signs that indicate storms may be coming in our lives. Our children act out, or their grades at school drop. We receive occasional hints that a project is not going well, but we are too busy to address the matter at the moment. Later. Too many other things are going on. We recall how a particular food affected us in the past, yet we still eat it anyway. Our clothes no longer fit, but we do not change our eating habits, exercise routine, or lifestyle. We ignore pain, a sign that some body part needs attention.

The same principle applies to our spiritual life. Our prayer life seems dry. We cannot remember our dreams. We can no longer write. All we read appears dull and uninteresting. We think of every excuse not to attend corporate worship. We stop going outdoors. It is too hot. Too cold. Too sunny. Too cloudy. We stop talking to friends. We isolate ourselves. 

In medicine, a sign is an outward or objective appearance that suggests what is going on, like the red butterfly rash across the nose characteristic of lupus erythematosus. On the other hand, a symptom describes something that is subjectively experienced by an individual, such as lupus fatigue or pain associated with a urinary tract infection, which requires some interpretation.

We are constantly given signs and experience symptoms in our outer and inner lives that can direct us. God never abandons us. We are called only to keep ourselves “in tune” to see and hear. Spiritual directors, spiritual friends, and spiritual practices are all gifts that can help us along this journey and place us in a position to connect to God. They assure us we are not alone, and that a directional move or change in course may be needed in our outer or inner life. But then, of course, it is God that changes us..

My own experience, however, is that I am so much like that osprey, waiting until the very last minute before I surrender to something greater than myself.

This last Rembrandt represents another storm. I grieve every time I see it mentioned. I rejoice that I had the opportunity to see the mesmerizing painting several times before it was stolen from one of my favorite museums. We see clearly the violent storms of our life and often have difficulty seeing Christ there with us, but he is so clearly there, beside us.

Christ in the Storm on the Sea of Galilee, Rembrandt, 1632. This painting was stolen in 1990 in the largest art heist in U.S. history from the Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum in Boston.  A $10M reward has not been claimed for its recovery.  Its empty frame remains hanging in the museum

Joanna. https://www.joannaseibert.com/

 

 

 

The Family of Man... and Women

The Family of Man

“The purpose of these pages is twofold.

To serve as a remembrance of our happy times in the past and of our own search for ourselves.

To serve as a message of hope for a successful life in every respect in the future.

A past and a future—both tied together by the present—not only the present, but love—without which neither the past nor the future would exist.”— Judy Rand and Sue Latham, inscribed in The Family of Man, probably written in 1964, given to me as a gift at our graduation from the University of North Carolina Greensboro, the women’s college of the University of North Carolina at that time.

Migrant Mother Lange 1936

The Family of Man was a photographic exhibition of 503 pictures from 68 countries created by Edward Steichen for the Museum of Modern Art in 1955. The exhibit then toured the world, drawing record-breaking crowds for eight years. The book from the exhibit became an instant success and has never been out of print.

My husband directs the archaeology of our past memories from our basement, and recently brought me this photographic book from the "The Family of Man" exhibition to consider giving to one of our granddaughters for graduation.

It is the perfect gift to pass on. Zoe will not know Judy Rand and Sue Latham, who gifted the book to me. But the book will always carry the inscribed love of these two dear college friends from my dorm. Unfortunately, in the intervening years, I have lost touch with Judy and Sue. However, my hope is that the above inscription from Judy and Sue in the book will carry the love of friends who changed my life, and may also bring meaning to Zoe at a similar age in her adventures, more than half a century later.

We all have a call: to continue to treasure the love we received from friends and pass that love on as best we can. This copy of The Family of Man is a treasured, visible tradition that allows this to happen. Discussing the photographs in the book with my granddaughter and talking about the friends who gifted it will be another way—simply spending time together in the present moment, remembering the past, and looking to the future. A sacred time.

A wonderful postscript. Through Facebook, Judy Rand and I recently reconnected. She is still the amazing person I once knew. After many years in the academic world, she is now an artist and musician living in West Virginia.

Joanna joannaseibert.com

Lamott: Prayer

Lamott: Prayer

“So prayer is our sometimes real selves trying to communicate with the Real, with Truth, with the Light. It is us reaching out to be heard, hoping to be found by light and warmth in the world, instead of darkness and cold. Even mushrooms respond to light—I suppose they blink their mushroomy eyes, like the rest of us.”—Anne Lamott in Help, Thanks, Wow: The Three Essential Prayers (Hodder & Stoughton, 2001).

When spiritual friends have difficulty with prayer, we discuss our current prayer life and what kind of prayer discipline has been helpful in the past. We discuss the various ways to pray, including walking and praying, praying in silence, using prayer books, Ignatian prayers, Centering Prayer, praying with beads, praying in color, and observing the monastic hours.

Anne Lamott’s book Help, Thanks, Wow is a realistic, humorous, and down-to-earth discourse on praying, organized around three subject lines: giving thanks, asking for help, and praising. The book is filled to the brim with simple “one-liners” to remember and guide us through the day.

One of my favorites is, “If one person is praying for you, buckle up. Things can happen.” Another is, “The difference between you and God is that God never thinks he is you.” Finally, she reminds us that gratitude is not just lifting our arms and waving our hands, as we often see on television, but instead picking up trash, doing what is required, and reaching out to others in need. When we breathe in gratitude, we breathe it out.

Lamott’s section on “Wow” likens that kind of prayer to a child seeing the ocean for the first time. I still remember standing just inside the National Cathedral as a group of fifth-graders walked in. I will not forget one small boy who looked up at the high, vaulted gray stone ceilings and exclaimed: “WOW!” These are uppercase wows.

There are also lower-case wows, such as getting into bed between clean sheets. Lamott suggests poetry is “the official palace language of Wow.” She also reminds us of C. S. Lewis’s view of prayer, that we pray not to change God, but to change ourselves.

My experience is that Lamott consistently stimulates us to adopt new faith practices or reminds us about those we have forgotten. This can bring welcome renewal to our everyday lives.

Joanna. https://www.joannaseibert.com/