A Meditation on Reckoning With Social Media

A Meditation on Reckoning With Social Media

Guest Writer: Karen Dubert

As I reckon with social media.

I need mountains of wisdom—

and stacks of restraint.

Like toddlers with hunting knives and power tools

we play thoughtlessly

on deceptively simple cyber-technology.

 

Access to so much data—

Unknown chinks we create as we share—

with the illusion that by curating

words and pictures—we control the message:

oh tenuous, naive hope.

 

When I post something—anything

do I question my motivation—

the direction I am choosing—

self-deprecation, self-glorification

How well do I know myself?

 

When I read something—anything

do I interrogate my inclination—

the choices I’m making—

to compare or measure?

to judge or justify?

How is my soul faring

on what I choose for nourishment?

 

When I choose not to choose:

but merely scroll down, and down,

losing the gift of minutes and hours

to emerge weary and disgruntled—

Will I offer myself grace? to lean into

the will to grow into someone

whose perspective is strong and sound.

 

Compassion is my refuge.

Not for self-indulgence

or an excuse for false “self-care”

but for my inner being to be renewed

so it may reflect an outer grace

and share a smile,

not a reproach.

 

Karen Dubert.  July 20, 2026  https://apoetinexile.substack.com/?utm_campaign=profile_chips

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